by bfp I don’t like the idea of “healing.” As in, I need to take some time to myself and just *heal*. I just realized today one of the reasons I don’t like “heal” is because it implies that at one time, you used to be a whole person. And then you got raped or [...]

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the boundaries that my body says it needs. my mind has one set of boundaries that are socially ingrained in me: men can do whatever they want to me, white supremacy is entitled to me when it pleases, etc. but my body has a whole different set of boundaries. boundaries created by me and for [...]

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