I was going to leave this comment on this thread here at feministe (where the totally rawking Plain’s Feminist is guest blogging!)–but I felt like it got too ranty and long and not connected to the actual point of the post, even though it was in a way.
first comment for context:

I was at a [...]

i mean i dont do motherhood only when i know i can do it perfectly. i do it. fuck perfection. not only is perfection not attainable but if it was who would want to be around a perfect person? or perfect art? and i hell as dont want to be [...]

via Elle PhD

But they can’t see the damaging individualism inherent in their feminism. Of course, I don’t mean in choosing not to have children—familial and community obligations are commonly fulfilled by all of us, not just mothers. I mean the sentiment revealed in expressing aversion and revulsion towards women who do have children. As Noemi [...]