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		<title>By: flip flopping joy &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Remember Aafia Siddiqui?</title>
		<link>http://flipfloppingjoy.com/2008/12/20/wishes-and-love/comment-page-1/#comment-5944</link>
		<dc:creator>flip flopping joy &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Remember Aafia Siddiqui?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 18:25:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] The Pakastani woman who was disappeared by the U.S. government? [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] The Pakastani woman who was disappeared by the U.S. government? [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
		<link>http://flipfloppingjoy.com/2008/12/20/wishes-and-love/comment-page-1/#comment-514</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:37:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maybe I could email her through the Caged Prisoners. Maybe that&#039;d be more anonymous to prying eyes...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe I could email her through the Caged Prisoners. Maybe that&#8217;d be more anonymous to prying eyes&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: bfp</title>
		<link>http://flipfloppingjoy.com/2008/12/20/wishes-and-love/comment-page-1/#comment-512</link>
		<dc:creator>bfp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:53:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh, god, michelle, I really really couldn&#039;t answer that--I *think* it would be safe, because it&#039;s approved by her lawyers and the court system--but as somebody who has seen horrible terrible things happen in the name of &quot;immigration&quot;--I couldn&#039;t tell you &#039;yes&#039; and feel comfortable about it. I do know that Siddiqui hasn&#039;t been actually been *convicted* of anything--so you wouldn&#039;t be corresponding with a &#039;terrorist&#039; but somebody who is on trial. 

But I&#039;d say follow you&#039;re guts.  if it feels safe to write to her, than do it, if not, I&#039;m sure that she, more than anybody else will understand and feel empathy with your situation.

good luck on your immigration battles. you are in my thoughts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh, god, michelle, I really really couldn&#8217;t answer that&#8211;I *think* it would be safe, because it&#8217;s approved by her lawyers and the court system&#8211;but as somebody who has seen horrible terrible things happen in the name of &#8220;immigration&#8221;&#8211;I couldn&#8217;t tell you &#8216;yes&#8217; and feel comfortable about it. I do know that Siddiqui hasn&#8217;t been actually been *convicted* of anything&#8211;so you wouldn&#8217;t be corresponding with a &#8216;terrorist&#8217; but somebody who is on trial. </p>
<p>But I&#8217;d say follow you&#8217;re guts.  if it feels safe to write to her, than do it, if not, I&#8217;m sure that she, more than anybody else will understand and feel empathy with your situation.</p>
<p>good luck on your immigration battles. you are in my thoughts.</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
		<link>http://flipfloppingjoy.com/2008/12/20/wishes-and-love/comment-page-1/#comment-511</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:48:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I saw the talk about Feminists and Feminism in the comments here. We don&#039;t need Feminism in order to fight against injustices towards women. We can do it on our own without having to adopt that particular ideology. Feminists are not the only women that helped to bring so many freedoms and possibilities to women and yet for some reason Feminists and Feminism gets all the credit and glory. That always annoys me. Aafia Siddiqui will never be the darling of Feminists as long as she continues to be true to God ~ but who cares?!? If any ideology demands that we betray God in order to be acceptable then we women don&#039;t need to be a part of it. Let the Feminists snub Aafia Siddiqui. We don&#039;t need them. We have each other! We can love Aafia Siddiqui without the Feminists. That&#039;s what our society needs to do: figure out that we women don&#039;t *need* Feminists or Feminism to bring about justice. 

I&#039;m so paranoid about writing to Aafia Siddiqui. I&#039;m trying to become a permanent resident in the U.K. (I&#039;m American married to a British citizen) and I keep thinking they&#039;ll come after me for writing to an alleged &quot;terrorist.&quot; I know that sounds stupid but seriously, can you blame me?? Do you think that would happen or is it safe to write to her and send her books from Amazon.com??</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I saw the talk about Feminists and Feminism in the comments here. We don&#8217;t need Feminism in order to fight against injustices towards women. We can do it on our own without having to adopt that particular ideology. Feminists are not the only women that helped to bring so many freedoms and possibilities to women and yet for some reason Feminists and Feminism gets all the credit and glory. That always annoys me. Aafia Siddiqui will never be the darling of Feminists as long as she continues to be true to God ~ but who cares?!? If any ideology demands that we betray God in order to be acceptable then we women don&#8217;t need to be a part of it. Let the Feminists snub Aafia Siddiqui. We don&#8217;t need them. We have each other! We can love Aafia Siddiqui without the Feminists. That&#8217;s what our society needs to do: figure out that we women don&#8217;t *need* Feminists or Feminism to bring about justice. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m so paranoid about writing to Aafia Siddiqui. I&#8217;m trying to become a permanent resident in the U.K. (I&#8217;m American married to a British citizen) and I keep thinking they&#8217;ll come after me for writing to an alleged &#8220;terrorist.&#8221; I know that sounds stupid but seriously, can you blame me?? Do you think that would happen or is it safe to write to her and send her books from Amazon.com??</p>
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		<title>By: bfp</title>
		<link>http://flipfloppingjoy.com/2008/12/20/wishes-and-love/comment-page-1/#comment-510</link>
		<dc:creator>bfp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:14:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wrote to her, and I&#039;m not Muslim! I think that at this point, any support she could possibly get would be something beautiful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wrote to her, and I&#8217;m not Muslim! I think that at this point, any support she could possibly get would be something beautiful.</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
		<link>http://flipfloppingjoy.com/2008/12/20/wishes-and-love/comment-page-1/#comment-507</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:07:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Do you think she&#039;d mind if a Catholic wrote to her? I&#039;m not Muslim but I&#039;m not a Muslim-hater either. I lived in the Middle East and met &quot;real muslims&quot; in the flesh so I&#039;m not deluded by the media&#039;s version of Islam or muslims.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you think she&#8217;d mind if a Catholic wrote to her? I&#8217;m not Muslim but I&#8217;m not a Muslim-hater either. I lived in the Middle East and met &#8220;real muslims&#8221; in the flesh so I&#8217;m not deluded by the media&#8217;s version of Islam or muslims.</p>
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		<title>By: bfp</title>
		<link>http://flipfloppingjoy.com/2008/12/20/wishes-and-love/comment-page-1/#comment-441</link>
		<dc:creator>bfp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2009 02:13:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>aaminah--bq was *building* on what you were saying--the contemplative thing I was talking about was--you said X and that triggered Y in Bq--she was agreeing with you and saying in addition to what YOU are saying, she ALSO thinks X.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>aaminah&#8211;bq was *building* on what you were saying&#8211;the contemplative thing I was talking about was&#8211;you said X and that triggered Y in Bq&#8211;she was agreeing with you and saying in addition to what YOU are saying, she ALSO thinks X.</p>
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		<title>By: Aaminah Hernandez</title>
		<link>http://flipfloppingjoy.com/2008/12/20/wishes-and-love/comment-page-1/#comment-440</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaminah Hernandez</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2009 02:02:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Also, please read the context in which I wrote anything about excusing the behavior:

&quot;it is, as I said, an intentional lack of interest in Muslims and Arabs. And sorry, but there’s no excuse for it.&quot;

I&#039;m clearly saying there is no excuse for the racism in the &quot;intentional lack of interest in Muslims and Arabs&quot;. I don&#039;t know what reasons you may be searching for to explain why things are the way they are in the blogosphere. I just gave you a reason: &quot;intentional&quot; racism against Arabs and Muslims. Racism and hypocrisy ARE inexcuseable. You may see other &quot;logical&quot; reasons, but both reasons you cited still actually come down to racism in the end.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Also, please read the context in which I wrote anything about excusing the behavior:</p>
<p>&#8220;it is, as I said, an intentional lack of interest in Muslims and Arabs. And sorry, but there’s no excuse for it.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m clearly saying there is no excuse for the racism in the &#8220;intentional lack of interest in Muslims and Arabs&#8221;. I don&#8217;t know what reasons you may be searching for to explain why things are the way they are in the blogosphere. I just gave you a reason: &#8220;intentional&#8221; racism against Arabs and Muslims. Racism and hypocrisy ARE inexcuseable. You may see other &#8220;logical&#8221; reasons, but both reasons you cited still actually come down to racism in the end.</p>
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		<title>By: Aaminah Hernandez</title>
		<link>http://flipfloppingjoy.com/2008/12/20/wishes-and-love/comment-page-1/#comment-439</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaminah Hernandez</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2009 01:56:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Um... I am confused. I&#039;m not trying to be argumentative. I didn&#039;t say &quot;you&quot; personally were excusing the issue. I said you weren&#039;t even talking about what I was talking about. 

Bq wrote: &quot; I also think part of it is the general lack of interest among Americans in things that relate to the world “out there” and foreign policy despite living in a neo-imperialist state.&quot;

I am NOT talking about Americans in general. Yes, average Americans are exactly what Bq just described. But I was very SPECIFIC that I am not talking about average Americans but very specifically about the hypocrisy in the PoC blogosphere.

By you shifting it to being about how Americans in general are ignorant of these things, you are shifting the conversation away from putting any responsibility upon the so-called progressive PoC blogosphere. In that way you are may not be excusing it, but you are comparing apples to oranges and it comes off like completely ignoring/invalidating my statement. You did not in any way respond to or engage with what I was actually saying, but turned it around to how Americans in a general sense are ignorant.

I too appreciate that Bq can express herself in few words, but it doesn&#039;t change the fact that those few words were irrelevent to what I was trying to express, and thereby pretty much implied that there was no meaning worth contemplating in what I had said.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Um&#8230; I am confused. I&#8217;m not trying to be argumentative. I didn&#8217;t say &#8220;you&#8221; personally were excusing the issue. I said you weren&#8217;t even talking about what I was talking about. </p>
<p>Bq wrote: &#8221; I also think part of it is the general lack of interest among Americans in things that relate to the world “out there” and foreign policy despite living in a neo-imperialist state.&#8221;</p>
<p>I am NOT talking about Americans in general. Yes, average Americans are exactly what Bq just described. But I was very SPECIFIC that I am not talking about average Americans but very specifically about the hypocrisy in the PoC blogosphere.</p>
<p>By you shifting it to being about how Americans in general are ignorant of these things, you are shifting the conversation away from putting any responsibility upon the so-called progressive PoC blogosphere. In that way you are may not be excusing it, but you are comparing apples to oranges and it comes off like completely ignoring/invalidating my statement. You did not in any way respond to or engage with what I was actually saying, but turned it around to how Americans in a general sense are ignorant.</p>
<p>I too appreciate that Bq can express herself in few words, but it doesn&#8217;t change the fact that those few words were irrelevent to what I was trying to express, and thereby pretty much implied that there was no meaning worth contemplating in what I had said.</p>
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		<title>By: bfp</title>
		<link>http://flipfloppingjoy.com/2008/12/20/wishes-and-love/comment-page-1/#comment-418</link>
		<dc:creator>bfp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 01:28:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, I didn&#039;t read what bq was saying as an &#039;excuse&#039; either--more as a contemplating thing. Bq is always brief in her comments, maybe that&#039;s why it didn&#039;t appear as contemplating. I need a good, oh, 2 hundred thousand words to contemplate--I appreciate bq&#039;s ability to contemplate in a sentence or two!! :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, I didn&#8217;t read what bq was saying as an &#8216;excuse&#8217; either&#8211;more as a contemplating thing. Bq is always brief in her comments, maybe that&#8217;s why it didn&#8217;t appear as contemplating. I need a good, oh, 2 hundred thousand words to contemplate&#8211;I appreciate bq&#8217;s ability to contemplate in a sentence or two!! <img src='http://flipfloppingjoy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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